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As a person who works in the trades mainly doing remodels mostly for the boomer generation (because most other folks can’t afford to remodel the house they live in), I’ve come across some clients that will remark “wow, I don’t know how you kids can raise a family these days, things are so expensive”. These of course are the empathetic boomers, willing to look beyond their own circumstances and have a reasonable assessment of reality. However there are many more of this generation that want to complain to me personally about the high cost of materials and whether or not my rates of labor are justified. They tell me tall tales of their glorious past wherein an extensive bathroom remodel in the eighties was completed before lunch break. I’ve even had to take some to small claims in order to receive payment for the work completed. Their reasons for non-payment never convinced the judge. It’s just that simply some people have the wisdom and humility of empathy and others have a narcissism that places their short term experience on this earth as all that matters to them. They’ll spend their children’s inheritance on frivolity without regard to their own bloodline’s well being. It’s soft people that make hard times for their own children.

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As a GenXer I have grown tired of this debate. There seems to be a complete lack of awareness that the economic boom that the boomers took advantage of was the result of unique post-war, economic conditions.

There was a surplus of industrial production capacity that was migrated from a war machine to a consumer machine from making tanks and bombers to making washing machines and cars.

It’s not as if there was a mountain of opportunity that got mined into oblivion by a single generation. Leaving nothing behind for younger generations, it’s not how the world works.

Most of Europe had been destroyed. The United States was one of the few places that could produce things the world needed, which is why everyone wanted an American cars, American appliances, and American culture.

And let’s not forget those economic advantages were not given to all people equally. Some were able to benefit from those advantages of the postwar era. Others were not. Some were able to buy suburban homes others were kept out of the suburbs. While some passed those suburban homes onto their GenX children other GenXers to this day have no home and have no inherited generational wealth.

That post-war economic condition cannot be replicated, via policy or will. Yes, economic, conditions have indeed changed, but along with that change has come new technologies, new tools, new capability, and new opportunities which generations before could not have even dreamed of.

I don’t need to rehash a list. You already know what those technologies are. Every generation is put through a cultural and economic meat grinder, and social contracts are broken for every generation.

Baby boomers grew up believing that you graduate from high school, go to college if you’re lucky then work for a company for 25 years and retire. For some, this was reality. For most, it was not.

Then came the 1970s, a focus on the bottom line on competitiveness. That’s when everything changed for the boomers. Some were able to recover, some were able to inherit generational wealth from their parents, but the vast majority were not able to do that. Layoffs and economic downturn had taken them out long ago.

You see those people living in tent cities in almost every major metro across the United States? Most of them are the dreaded boomers. What got them there? Well, the stories vary many times its medical bankruptcies these are followed closely behind by GenXers.

Let’s talk about Gen X for a second since no one ever fucking does. Our generation is now taking care of our boomer parents, our kids, and our kids children. GenXers are the ones that are holding this whole shit show together right now. It’s why we don’t expect our kids to move out. We know that rents are ridiculous. We know that the dating scene is screwed. We’re not blind to it. We see it every day we hear about it every day.

Let’s get back to those broken social contracts. Gen Xers were told to go to college get a good job. Enter into the middle class. You want to know what we got instead; we went to college we watched our degrees become worthless, and we wondered how the hell we were going to pay off our student loans while taking care of our children and our grandchildren and our boomer parents. That’s the reality that the vast majority of us now live with multiple generations, under one rented roof. It’s why we carry excessive amounts of life insurance. We know we are a generation that will either die on the job or be replaced by AI. Right now; it seems like both are happening.

Millennials and Gen Z were sold the same promises, despite the fact that the world of getting a degree and entering into the middle class simply does not exist anymore.

Again, we’re not blind to that, trust me we are all painfully aware of it. You know why because we are the ones that witnessed the destruction of the middle class. By the time my generation got here, things were already in the process of falling apart, and we learned from early on you better take care of yourself because no one else will.

I’ve said enough, my point is no generation has it easy, not one.

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